Let me just say that the Alito thing scares me a bit simply because he has been greeted as the Second Coming by the rightiest right. Anyone who gets these people so excited is not to be trusted.
But if your job is to sway the American people against this nomination, you're going to have to do better than saying that Alito believes that a husband should be notified if his wife is having an abortion (not a one-night-stand, not a boyfriend of two weeks -- a til-death-do-us-part spouse). I don't want to debate the situations wherein this might not be such a good idea (not his child, he's abusive, etc.), but the very idea that a husband should at least be given a heads up if his wife is going to abort a child she is carrying doesn't sound all that radical.
If this is as scary as the oppo research gets, expect Justice Alito come January.